Hello, Pimprenella,

I am not sure I follow the entire thread, I do want you to know I have read it thought and do hope that it all works out.

It was seeming to what I could understand or follow that the 'communication' between you and this man seemed to be somewhat responses which he did not directly say to you and in turn, seemed you may have answered questions not directly asked to him. I do this often as I am not very good at communication and tend to 'read into' others facial expressions, body language. I have really caused myself uneeded stress over not asking the other person a like, exact question and getting an exact answer. I still battle this communication issue and understand how frustrating it can be.

I wish you the best --Take Care,
Kris