the last time my boyfriend took steroids was 3 years ago. ever since then, he suffered from erectile dysfunction. when he finally went to a sex therapist a year ago, the doc told him that he basically had a zero testosterone level. now he is taking medication from time to time, but not consistently. things are somewhat better, but he still rarely ever wants to have sex with me. i always have to initiate it. he makes excuses that he is busy. then when i finally beg and cry he gives me sympathy sex. he tries to make sex schedules with me. i'm only 23 and definitely not a sex maniac. i'm just a normal girl who enjoys intimacy. i just want to feel like he is a man who wants me. we have sex twice a week, and that is on a good week. but i feel like it should be more because of our age. i don't feel like he is a 'real' man because most guys i know want to have sex and frequently get hard ons. he doesn't. i'm on the verge of a serious collapse. it might sound selfish, but i don't want to be with someone like that because things would lead to cheating or divorce in the long run. is it time to end the relationship??