Well as I said in another thread I don't agree with secrets, so have always mentioned to all my children that they have another sister somewhere in the world.

He was fiddling about on facebook and mentioned her to me so WE had a look for her and found her.

I am partly to blame for this so I have to try to fix it.

As a very very good friend of mine asked me. How would I feel if this was my daughter we was talking about ? I would hate it to be honest. So........ Its now up to me to try to get this in the right place .