Bit of background.

My ex her bio father was going out with a girl and he finished with her. she said she was pregnant so he went back out with her but she wasn't so they split up again. She then said she was pregnant again but he wouldn't believe her (turned out she was this time). He was seventeen she was sixteen.

The little girl was born ex now 18 mother 17. He paid child support for a year but did not go and see the baby apart from one visit where he received a photo of her (which we have).

The young girl wrote to him when the baby was a year old saying she had met someone else and he wanted to adopt the child. My ex agreed. For some reason they paid back in one go ALL the child support my ex had paid to them. Ex said fine and kept the money and let the child be adopted.

From what I can gather the then young girl and her 'new boyfriend' married and still are some 31 years later. We did not know this prior to looking for her.

So really I feel its best left as it is.

Thoughts anyone ?

Also we have no way of contacting the parents of the girl who is now 32 not 31 as I think I said earlier.