Thankfully, this wasn't in town and she was perfectly safe. Running away wasn't a problem this time but those ideas are good thanks. I was wondering more how I could stop her being so stubborn when she gets thoughts in her head, like she did when her boyfriend lost his ring. What can I say to make her see that things aren't always what she thinks they are? Also, how can I stop her being so bossy and controlling? Or help her understand what other people are saying to her? She doesn't seem to understand anything, she even gets confused when two poeple have the same name and tends to say she doesn't know one of them when she spent a year in their class. Or she says she doesn't know/doesn't remember some things when they confuse her. How can I teach her to ask what the other person means instead of killing the conversation?