You are right. I have not met the daughter's father in person. I have gotten very close with the daughter and she is a huge reason why I've tried for this long. We have said that we need to talk about things more and part of that is my fault. I sometimes assume I know how she will react to a situation so I will avoid it at times. I don't like to fight so if there is something that I think she'll get an attitude about then I will avoid it. I don't know what to believe and what not to believe with her. I want to think that she means everything she says but I try to read between the lines and sometimes it seems like she just wants a complete family so bad that she wants to force me into role as husband/father figure even if I'm not completely ready yet.