Wow, Blue, I am very impressed with that response. I totally agree.

Peaches, I hate criticizing anyone as well. But I think this is more about recognizing the frailties of any human being, parents included. It's the same thing we try to do in therapy with our therapists...recognize them as genuine, real and flawed people...as we all are. Letting go of the illusion and allowing them their mistakes...and at the same time...allowing our own. I doubt very much they would want you to suffer trying to protect them. I hope your session goes well.