Did you ever say something really outlandish or ridiculous and T didn't react? Did you do it on purpose? Maybe it was just something provocative, like talking about sex when you don't usually do that.

Sometimes I say something and I'm shocked that T doesn't jump on it. He does his "I'm just staring at you routine." And then I'm thinking "whoaaaa....not a blink!" In those moments I'm not sure if he's tired, or if I'm acting out and trying to get him to react. It's probably a little of both.