I think sometimes a say things that I THINK are outlandish and my T doesn't respond in kind. In this situations I usually stop and silently assess her response or lack thereof to see is there is any hint that she is hiding her true reaction. IDK... if my T didn't react in some way to something really wacky...I think I would get angry with her. I don't want someone to just sit in the room. I want someone to listen and TELL or at least say, "what?" to me when I say something that is totally off the wall.