I think sometimes spouses worry a lot about therapy - what if we talk about them and make them look bad! What if we begin to rely more on our T's than them for comfort/support! And then there's the money issue.

It took me nearly having a break down (and my reminding my dh of the times I was hospitalized before I knew him), before my husband realized that therapy is not simply me chit chatting with a friend - that it can seriously impact my life for the better and help me be stronger and not end up in the hospital.