perhaps people can help..I met a guy named Joel and we started spending just about every day together. I have many strong feelings toward him. We have done some very romantic things together. Although the whole thing is platonic- no kissing even, no talk of being a couple. We have plans for later today and everyday yet I'm afraid of how deep my feelings are running for him, unrequitted. I don't know what to do with all these feelings. Where do they reside before they become hurt feelings from things that aren't happening?