Hi Melljoy,
I'm new to this forum, but can really relate to your situation. My husband and I both have jobs, but 3-1/2 hrs apart, and only see each other on weekends. We are trying to find him a job closer to home, but construction isn't happening here. I have a great job, and we have a farm. He makes me feel like it is my fault that he is so unhappy. I'm trying to get him to go with me to talk to our preacher, but he says it's our problem, and no one elses. What did you say to encourage him to see someone. After reading your post, it gave me a little hope.
Thanks, Becky