Thanks For the response! I have read various things about charater traits of those that are involved with a narcissist. One thing that I identified that I had not recognized in the past is that my father is very narcissistic. I've read that when you have been raised by an N, you can easily get sucked into the snare of another because this is "acceptable" behavior. Of course, he didn't act anything like this when we dated and we had a long distance relationship before getting married.