MUE, Not sure about you, but privacy is number 1 in my list of what will help me heal and trust, and a group that can blog about another member to me is quite outragous. Personally I'd shut my mouth for ever if I were in a situation like that, especially in the early yrs, or perhaps in the early yrs I didnt realise that sort of thing wasn't condusive for healing, some of the things I say to T are very sensivtive to me and having my charactor judged for all to see isn't what I would want. Perhaps its you that are behaving like any rational person would and not trusting because it doesnt sound very trustworthy? Go with your guts.