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Originally Posted by wonderingmary
She said "therapy is an intimate relationship," which seemed dismissive of my concerns.
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Now, I can imagine my T saying something like this to me. In the same context that she said, "chaotic, I am NOT a complete stranger."
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"When you left last week, I wanted to touch you." It was very counterproductive.
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NO! This is totally not appropriate and would have got a stong reaction from me...even now in my more grounded state. If your T gives you the creepy crawlies...listen to your gut and get out of their. The first lesson I learned in therapy was to trust those viseral sensations. Your body knows what is life-giving and life-taking...its just hard to sort through the mental noise the brain creates to really listen to it.