A huge issue for me as well.

But also, 1.you don't have to trust everyone, and 2. trust has to be earned. I agree that being in a T-group where one member blogs about another member in that group is not a trust-worthy situation.

Also, you don't have to trust everyone the same amount. There are people you can trust with some things, (like, external things, like discussing school assignments) and some you can trust with deeper things, and some you can trust with the things closest to your heart.

It was important to me to realize that it was taking care of myself to figure out how much it was safe to share with different people.