It may not seem like it, but this may be a step in the right direction. Keep communicating with him. Does he know your t? Sometimes that helps.

When I started into therapy this last time, my husband was really actually jealous of my t. He'd never done that before, and it was a definite struggle. It all came to a head when I had to be hospitalized. My husband blew up at me and said some pretty horrible things that night. I called my t, and my t said to put my husband on the phone. I don't know exactly what my t said to him that night, but my husband backed off and was more supportive after that. (I suspect my t told him to back off and get supportive!) Now my husband actually goes to t for therapy too. Funny how things change.

Stick to your guns. Things may turn around yet.