Yes, Lmo,
The man I was involved with, the N, could not be questioned for the simplest of things...saying I was "causing" causing him to revert into his shell.
Loved to talk about himself, and when I would interject anything off the subject of HIM, he would wait impatiently till I had finished, and resume his monologue. The relationship turned into a true nightmare...really...but no need to recount it here...I've done the recovery work.
Now, though, a big red flag goes up when I meet a man who only talks about himself initially. In fact, I recently declined a dinner invitation from a man who did that very thing in our first phone conversation. In my naive and accommodating past, I would have excused it as "nervousness" and wanting to impress, LOL!
Seeker