Hi newlywed, welcome to PC! I would underline what Vickie said about his happiness not being your responisibility. Sure, we can do things that we KNOW will make others happy or unhappy. But in the big picture, as mature adults, we each have to learn how to take responsibility for our own emotions.
One thought I had, not knowing your circumstances, is that maybe it would be easier for you - being in the health care field - to relocate than it would be for your husband? The current job situation is much more difficult on construction workers than for people in the health care field. So maybe that is something you two can think about and discuss?
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