My Support Forums - View Single Post - How do you deal with people that want to fix you?

(JD) · Jan 14, 2010, 05:45 PM

We all find these types of people in all areas of life, don't we? I'm glad your ignoring her and not giving her anything to feed upon or argue with worked. I daresay, for others, that want to do more than just share, esp for this group, you can remind them --or ask them a leading question along the lines of doesn't their faith teach them that it is their faith and prayers that will "save" relatives, and that you can't make a horse drink... so keep praying (only?)

I have a sister who wants to "fix" me and "save" me as well. I can't share anything with her any more... because nothing I say or know or do is her way, her "right" "more knowing" way. I think we could have fun together if she'd just share once what she thinks and leaves it, like I have with her. Take care.