I've always been very close to my older sister. She's practically my mother, my best friend, and my role model (as well as sister, obviously) all in one. She's moving multiple states away though, and I can't imagine not having her around. I'd go with her, but I'm afraid that if I leave, the rest of my family will just fall apart. I'm really scared of what will happen if I leave them too, but at the same time, it'll tear me apart trying to keep them together and being stuck here. I'm havign a hard enough time keeping myself together. And I'm so hurt and mad at her for leaving me behind. I jsut want to tell her I think it's a terrible idea and she can't move but that seems so selfish. It's her life, and she's really looking forward to it, but that also hurts because I feel like she just forgot about me. She's all I really have right now. Would it be so terrible if I told her I don't want her to go? Or is that too selfish, because I know she really wants to do it?