It really depends on the third party. If his girlfriend really cares about him and knows you're just friends, then it's not out of line. Sometimes, we can't share our deepest feelings and fears with our significant other, so we talk to our best friends/parents/doctors/etc. That's not a bad thing, talking always helps.
However, if the girlfriend isn't exactly thrilled with the close relationship you two have, then she might see it as out of line.
Personally?
I do not think it's out of line or disrespectful, at all. It's better for your friend to have someone to talk to (i.e. you) than not being able to talk to anyone.
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