Burbitine,

i'm sorry about your girlfriend..that has to hurt....

this winning at all costs thing doesn't seem to be working so good for you...its making you out to be a bully...you posted about a fistfight with her and she's now out of the picture, you've lost your t, and thats only what you have posted. winning is nice..it is..its a high..i'll admit it but being happy with friends..and at peace thats a high too.

yeah talking about the felony will get you in trouble..but i'll bet $$$ not nearly as much trouble as if it goes down and someone gets hurt and it comes out you knew and did nothing. or participated.

there comes a point in your life where you have to step up and decide what is more important your friends actions or your own...is it better to fit in with the crowd and be liked or to be liked inside your own head..you won';t have these friends all your life..but you will have yourself.

you are right you don't know any of us. we may come off an an annoying bunch of older pains in the butt...so be it. you came here for help. you are getting it. some of us are much older..some not. but we have all had to make that same choice...friends vs the person..and guess what..its something that you have to do all throughout your life.

would i let harm come to my t? no. if i could prevent harm coming to her or someone else i knew i would stop it...consequences be damned. do you think she will ever trust you after this if she is harmed? do you think any t at your school will? or teacher or any other kid?

and if you are so strong then why do you let this other person rule you like this? if you truly are a win at all costs kind of guy then why do they hold such power over you? i would think that you would be strong enough to say.."NO that is wrong, and dangerous & i won't participate or let t get hurt."

i'm not trying to rag on you just trying to help. i'd hate to see you at 15 get saddled with something that could have such a negative impact on your life.

come on...do the right thing..step up..find a male t...talk to them..be the man & friends be damned. it will be hard..oh so hard...but hey life is hard...and it isn't about winning at all costs and ruining everyone else in your way.