Right now I'm the only adult in a household of 4 of us around 40 and two older teenagers. I'm the only one with a job and the only one who has a driver's license. One of the other 40ish people is on unemployment and looking for a job, but she is also became the drinking buddy for my husband (her brother) and is continuing with risky relationships outside of her committed partner. They expect me to drive them around town for various events - migraine or not. I've been stressed about money for most of my life, but this added strain is keeping my head pounding - sometimes it's a full body migraine, sometime it's just a tension headache that feels like a rubberband is around the top of my head.

I'm not looking for advice, just a place to vent. They don't realize how childish they are acting. All three of the 40 year olds grew up in abusive situations and never really developed into adulthood. I can see that, but there's no way to tell them that. I'm just looking forward to a time when it's just my husband and I (and our cats) again. I can deal with him as long as he doesn't have an audience that laughes at each of his drunken episodes.

GRRRRRRRRR