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Originally Posted by hurtandconfused29
I have realized that if I do the same thing over and over expecting different results I am insane so on that note I am going to get in touch with an alanon class and maybe there I can get more answers.
Again thank you all so much for the advice and if ever I am needed I think that you can email me on here (i'm not sure) so feel free my ears are open and my shoulders are wide.
Thanks again
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You're not insane for thinking that, and wishing that, different results may occur. But if you're seeing that they WON'T, then that's a good step in the right direction. I go to Al-Anon as well, and there is a lot of good help and support there.
You can only help yourself, not your husband - he won't change unless he chooses to do so, and no amount of effort by you can change him. Sadly.
I want to change the alcoholic in my life, but I'm learning to distance myself so he doesn't hurt me emotionally anymore. I hope Al-Anon works for you, you deserve good things.