My niece went through a similiar situation with her girlfriend and I remember her telling me that her breaking things off was the best thing she could have done. At the time I know she didn't feel that way, she was hurt and depressed and it broke my heart to see her cry (also being an aunt I wanted to kick her butt for making my baby cry) but I let her get through it on her own and now she has found so much better.....she has found herself....so way to go and good luck in the future.