Hello & Welcome, Bjorker! You're in a sticky situation; once upon a time I found myself in roughly similar circumstances, but not quite as threatening as what you're facing.
I have little experience with non-prescription drugs. Melatonin did not help my sleep problems. Try searching through the
Drug Questions and
Sleep Issues & Dream Interpretation forums. Also, depending on the severity of your sleep problems, you may be able to obtain significant relief without any medications through the practice of "
sleep hygiene" techniques.
You have a lot at stake. I really wish you the best.
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My dog

mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.