my husband and seem to have nothing in common.he likes diff music than i.diff tv shows just everything.when it comes to sex there is none hasn't been for a couple years.he sleeps on the couch and i sleep in bed.i try to tell him how lonely i am and he blames me for it.he doesn't hold me even when i need comfort and he doesn't kiss.i think he doesn't love me yet he doesn't want me to leave him.but i think i need to leave for my own santitity.but i have no place to go.what do i do?