Understand! please tell your sister what you think of her. I left my family of origin many, many years ago and got on with my life. My sister did not and still constantly seeks approval --- I wish I could have told her what a great person she was and how much I admire her courage.
who do you get your encouragement from -- hubby, kids, grandkids, friends? we all need to hear how important we are. it sounds like your important to your children and grandchildren !!!
Tell us how it goes with your sister.
Take Care