also dont be harsh on the consequences. for all you know your son may be depressed and suicidal. not to scare you but it's a very serious matter to consider. there are days where after my mom gets mad at me i seriously could just shoot myself in the head if i had a gun available.

I hate knowing that my own mother doesnt like who i am and it only makes me hate her and think about all the things over the years that she didnt like about me, and thats what i focus on.
do you want your son to remember you only as the mother who thought he wasnt a better son? wasnt the son you expected to have?

he might act like he doesnt give a **** about what you think of himk buti swear to you he does. a lot.