Thank you Lou
I sure hope so! I've talked with my T about the whole situation we're in. He agrees that my ex and I need to come up with alternative solutions, to prepare for times like these. My T doesn't have ideas on how I can approach it though.

A big problem is that my ex has very high expectations of me. We have always disagreed on this very issue. For him, nothing is more important than work. He therefore expects me to get up very early and drive carefully 35 miles to his house, in the blizzard. Never mind that the highways are closing, or that snowplows haven't cleared the areas that I have to get through. Never mind that they've advised everyone to stay in their homes on all news. It does not matter to my ex. He hasn't heard from his work, about closing that day. Therefore, I am absolutely expected to come & watch the girls so he may go to work. To me, that is totally unreasonable! But, to my ex, me not being willing to drive, to be with my girls, is completely unreasonable.

Ugh! That's why my T cannot come up with ideas to help me work through these types of issues with my ex. Anyway...sorry for going off a little bit there but, man, he pisses me off sometimes!