I look at my T mostly, but occassionally if we're doing something really hard - I look past her on the left, and stare at her diploma's and licence on the wall. She does have a window - with nice big trees outside that I'll sometimes look at, if I need a break, but I physically have to turn my head to do that, and I don't know - it feels rude, whereas I can look past her at her diplomas, by just refocussing my eyes, so it doesn't feel so much like specific avoidance on my part.

--splitimage