to add to what i wrote earlier.my husband is also so controlling everything has to be his way or no way.he also tells me i'm wrong all the time.that i'm just mental most of the time and mkaes me feel worthless and unwanted. i think i should just leave him.i don't know what to do.he won't see a councelor.he says its just me if i was diff things would be diff.we have alot of stress but i think if we could treat each other better the stress would be easier.what do you guys think i should do?