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Originally Posted by ripley
When my T is speaking, I look at her and make eye contact. When I am speaking, I usually look at the floor somewhere over by her. She wears a lot of different shoes  I try not to look at the clock since she notices me doing that and she thinks I am always waiting for a chance to run out of there. Sometime I should maybe tell her it is actually because I don't want to take up more of her time than I am allowed.
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this made me stop and think, ripley. I guess when T is speaking, I do usually look at her, too, unless I am really distressed. It's when I am speaking, especially if it's about something difficult, that I look away. When she's doing the talking I look at her, I want her to know I'm listening. Usually.