Some examples are: Giving light pats, pokes, or caresses on the belly area; quick hand caresses while doing the typical kiss on the cheek greeting (the kiss does not make me feel awkward, just the touch part); and rubbing their backs when hugging them. I don't mind good squeezes for hugs; just the "extras" that she tends to add in to the affection.
Isn't touch something that is reserved for the intimate partner? I know that, out of respect, if I ever hug anyone other than my fiancee, I am so good about just doing a quick hug (squeeze), or a quick handshake; I am always thinking first of the comfort of my lady.
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Originally Posted by salukigirl
what are some examples of the ways she shows affection? Some people are just flirtatious in nature. I have dated guys like that; girls always had crushes on him because he was just charming and flirtatious in nature. In the end, I couldn't deal with it so we broke up. This sounds like something that needs to be taken care of before you guys get married. If you two are planning on spending the rest of your lives together, you need to have open communication where you can flat out say to her "I'm uncomfortable with your affection towards (insert names here)." If you two are really in this for the long haul, she should be understanding about it and talk about it.
Its not healthy to go into a marriage with a jealousy issue or issues of trust.
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