Updates:

My therapist says I should believe my husband when he says the problem is his, not mine. It's hard for me to do that, but I'll try.

Catrules, I know what you mean about pain! It's horrible. And it only makes it that much more difficult to exercise and help control the weight that is causing the pain. Catch-22, isn't it?

Perpetuallysad, we're two of a kind, aren't we?