I can really relate to this post...sometimes when the recipe is right (being frustrated about the nap, people being loud) and someone says the wrong thing to me it can really send me over the edge.

Your bf sounds like he was being very insensitive. People don't know how to react when we are having a breakdown/bad moment. Some people can be very supportive, some people are just going to get annoyed that we are bringing down their day a little bit.
Usually my bf is supportive, but sometimes he is not, so at those times, I have finally started saying to my bf, "would you treat me this way if I was suffering from a diabetic episode? would you become so frustrated with my anxiety if I was suffering from cancer instead of anxiety?"
Your problems are a real illness that requires real treatment and support from your loved ones.

Your bf couldn't handle that you "turned down weed" ?!?
Sounds like he's being ridiculous and should not be talking to you like that. Peer pressure is for middle school, not for adults like you who have every right to refuse drugs, esp. if they are dealing with health issues.
I hope your bf isn't like this all the time....