i read somewhere that looking up and to the right helps us to process our thoughts and select words while we are speaking.

Just like Zooropa, I tend to look at T while she is talking to me, and look away while I am talking to her.

One time T was telling me I didn't have to be 'superwoman', and feel like I had to do everything perfectly for my family and friends. She said she has always wanted to get a super woman cape to hang in her office, to be a reminder of that, but she didn't have room on her wall. I told her that last year my daughter was superwoman for halloween. And she said that is a good idea, she could get a child-size superwoman costume to hand on the wall. The very next week when I went in, I saw she had purchased a kid's superwoman costumer (this was right around halloween), and it was mounted on her wall right across from the couch on which I sit.

Anyway, sometimes I look at that......