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Originally Posted by aimeesh
I assume I'm annoying and boring and not anything interesting at all....so. awkward.
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Can relate to this totally...
Im socially phobic, but I surprised even myself the other day as to just how totally inept I really am. I went to have a look in the PC chat room, and as soon as I was in there, three messages popped up all saying "Hi Matt C!"...that totally freaked me out!!...I felt like they could all see me...Apart from "Hi", I didnt know what else to say, so I made a lame excuse and left straight away!! Ha ha ha
...Just like in real life!...how pathetic is that!
Oh well.maybe I'll try the chat room again...at least now I know what to expect.
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Originally Posted by aimeesh
so they really did like me
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..so do you recognize that the thoughts you have about yourself and what others think of you are not necessarily based on whats real, but on your own negative self view? If so, how about getting back into the chat room and trying again...to stop this episode turning into another self-fulfilling prophecy? Maybe if you turn this one around, the next time it'll be easier?
Good luck in all you do Aimeesh,
(and just look at your profile...yes, troubled, yes been through some tough ****...but boring?, unintersting? no way...complete opposite!!)
Matt C