Thanks for the responses. It is surely interesting and hard to wrap your mind around. I am glad these people only make up 4% of the male population and 1% of females. I hope this helps someone on here. To be honest, I was hoping that someone in a current relationship with one of these people. That is why I posted it in the relationship's forum instead of the APD website under personality place. But you know what, I am learning something unexpected on my own. I am starting to see that women in great distress who are romantically involved with a psychopath, are so brainwashed and taken in by their charm, that even if they reach out for help, cannot accept this as a possibility for consideration.Almost forgot to site drhare.org for the list at the begining of this thread. For those that are interested, there really is a ton of enlightening infoout there. I hope I was able to at least help at least help one person understand that the hell they are/were going through isn't/ wasn't about them.