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Thanks for your advice LittleMissSunshine but I completely disagree. I am NOT going to pleasure my husband 22x a month to "try it". I will NOT do something that I don't believe in. My husband and I have talked about our problems and our only problem that need immediate attention is the spending. He gets stressed when there isnt any money left to pay the bills. And I don't blame him. Spending money doesnt make me feel any better either. If sex needs to be written on a calander as a CHORE then the marriage is not worth saving. The weight part..sure, I have been doing some exercising and changed my diet since New Years Eve but I am doing that for ME not for my therapist. I need it for me because of my health.
I have tried budgets and its NOT that simple at all. Just because it is written on a piece of paper and hung on your wall doesnt mean when I go to the store I care about that piece of paper.
Yes I DO know what is wrong and NO I don't know how to fix it. That is why I am in counciling and the only things I have gotten out of it are sex and weight. Oh yes, and the budget. If I didn't want the help I would not be paying the money I have been for 7 months to go to a therapist ??!!
My p-doc says that they need to get the meds figured out and that will help a lot. And one more thing...I DO keep a journal tracking my sleep and my moods and such. I have been since last October.
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