Hi Mylife,
At least I know my therapist is not like yours, he would never do anything like you say yours is doing to you, sounds like he is the one in need of therapy. My situation is very different.He has been in practice for 25 years and when he says its the first time for him I believe him. I am no naive 20 or even 30 something, close to 50 and commonsense tells me if he made a habit of having relationships with his patients he would not be still in business in the same practice all that time. He is very confussed about our relationship and what could happen. As I said before we are both married and don't want to change that and if we are filling a need that both of us have right now and no one is going to get hurt so what. Thats not quite right, I know I will be hurt but how much, is something else, maybe after a time we will both be able to stop especially as it is making me stronger in lots of ways. I know that is what he thinks too. right now though I need him and he is also going through something that makes him need what I give him.