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lynn P. · Jan 18, 2010, 03:41 PM

((Berries)) - I'm really sorry this happened. I really dislike bullies or people that put others in awkward positions despite seeing they're uncomfortable. What is he in the group for? My first reaction is anger and i would like to have said the 2nd time he asked " are you hard of hearing bud??"

I just want you to know Berries that I think it's fine that you or anyone else is on disability. Thank God there is such a thing otherwise MI people might not have money to have a roof over their head and food on the table. I don't think you're lazy or a cheater.

I once was having dinner at an aquantance of my husbands. It was a husband and wife and their 5 kids. Well the oldest daughter was in university at the time, very determined type. So she starts bragging and then she asked me if I work and I'm sure she knew I didn't. I said "no I'm a stay at home mother". Then she began to say " how do you stand it, staying home ALL day doing nothing" and proceded to preach about how if she gets married and has kids, she'll continue to work. I turned many shades of red and didn't want to confront her, since I didn't feel it was proper etiquette being, this was her parents house and we're eating there. I did make it known another day to her, that I didn't like the way she made me squirm and I was proud of staying home for my girls and it was also a choice and privelege.

Please don't let this discourage you from going to that group. If he gets out of line again, tell him that you don't want him to talk you . What an idiot.