Hopeless,
I say run don't walk to the next T, and fast. I'm shocked with what they told you. You must feel really bad. First of all, this isn't medieval times with husbands having to have their way daily. My husband is lucky if he gets it twice a month let alone 22 times. and losing weight, really.... if only real life was that easy. I think finding a new therapist will make a huge difference to you getting some great counselling. Good luck