Thank you so much everyone =)

Sunflower, thank you for the advice about the recording. I looked up New York State Laws and it *looks* like it's legal to record without the other persons direct consent in a face-to-face setting as long as I am the other part of the conversation. I'm not 100% sure, so i'l double check before I take any action.


((((((Berries))))))))))

sanityseeker - yes I'll have to try to keep better documentation - I'm not so good at that )