Sounds like maybe you guys need to have lives of your own? I think a big part of keeping a relationship healthy is remembering who you are. I have noticed that in relationships where the bf and I do EVERYTHING together and always go places together and never have any time to ourselves go sour very fast. My current bf and I aren't like that at all. I will go to the gym with him if he needs some motivation or he will go with me someplace if I really want him to. But I still go out with my friends and he still goes out with his.

I don't get his point of flipping out if you go to a separate isle? If we do go to the same store it's expected for us to lose each other a couple times lol We go to the mall together, he goes to one store and I go to another. Its important for him to be able to let you do what you want and vise versa.

I do agree however that it is nice to have someone who tells you how caring you are even if there are crying bouts. Every relationship has points like this. You need to communicate with him that he has absolutely no reason to get mad if you go to a different isle. That really doesn't make any sense to me at all. Who cares if you're not interested? You're doing it aren't you? It's like if I told my boyfriend "but you're not doing the dishes because you WANT to". Who cares? What matters is that you care enough about him to do those things for him. You need to tell him that.