Maybe he should have married a carpenter?! Seriously though. Sit down and have a nice talk about having your time, his time and "our time". I'm seeing that there is no balance in the "our time" area. You know, the one that gets so many marriages in hot water when each person's interests do not get equal "us time"? I had to learn the hard way because my parental units did not show me healthy sharing. But I have learned to sit through the occasional Lady Longhorn's basket ball game if that's what she likes. Give it try and keep posting. There are a lot of good men out there, generalising them could be your pain talking. Let us know how things are going.