That's the thing. I moved out before I graduated high school and haven't relied on them in several years. I would think that them watching me work 2 jobs to put myself through school would show them that I'm responsible and I know they just want to look out for me but obviously, if I have been doing this on my own for 5 years I'm not going to any time soon. I just don't get why it's so horrible of a thing to want to treat yourself every now and then.