After four years of therepy and treatment for depression, my 21 year old daughter had a psych test and it shows she has borderline personality disorder. It is not surprising after researching symptoms, it fits her to a T. Back in August, after getting into situations that threatened her life, we blindsided her and shipped her off to her grandparents which live 250 miles away. It got her away from people she associated with, especially a 46 year old felon that she insisted that he was going to marry her. She started therapy with a new person down there, and after a few sessions, had the pscy test. Right now, things with my parents are very stressful and her situation is not helping. Her father and I are at our ends trying to figure out whether to leave her there and hope things will work out or what other option do we have? We are afraid that if she comes home, everything good that has built up will be dashed and she will go back to the way she was before. Anyone out there with a similar situation or any ideas for help?