Thanks Lynn.

I have a friend who says that marriage should cost a dollar, and divorce 50,000. And he believes that people might be more likely to think twice about it.

But I know that my decision would not be healthy for everyone. One of the things that was a life saver for us was finding a sexual addiction online support group. H has been working on those lessons, and there was a workshop for partners (myself) as well. In order for me to recognize, work through, and let go of the hurt and anger. I agree that my decision to stay would not have happened had I been dealing from my anger. It was definitely harder to stay than leave in a lot of ways.